27 April 2016

Baby Sophie

Wow it's been a long time! Not much to report, just had a baby, no big deal :)

Momma Keys got here a few days before baby was due because we were all sure baby was coming early (I was HUGE).  My due date came and went, so I spent the next few days eating jalapeños and spicy Indian food and walking up lots of stairs. 5 days late baby was finally ready to make an appearance!

Here's how birth works in a country with a free health care system and a hospital with not quite enough staff:

We went to the hospital about 6 am after a full night of contractions. I was sent home after my first check so we wandered around for 4 hours, went up to get checked again and was sent home again after being only 2 cm dilated. We walked downstairs in the hospital to get a sandwich, sat down to eat said sandwich and my waters broke... in the middle of the hospital reception. Embarrassing. We went back up to the antenatal ward where they stuck us in the waiting room (literally in the hallway surrounded by non-labouring people, while I was in the throes of labour). I made Mat talk them into giving us a private room while we waited for a midwife. 30 minutes later I was sure I was going to give birth on the floor of the waiting room so they finally threw me in a wheelchair and ran me to the birthing unit. Sophie Irene Horvath made her appearance an hour later.

16 hours of labour, no medication (except paracetamol - basically Tylenol, why do they even bother?), 9lb 6oz baby. Yikes.

My mom was here for 2 weeks after Sophie's arrival to help us, which was amazing. Mat and I actually managed to get some sleep! And Poppy got to spend quality time with Grandma doing fun stuff like baking cookies, dying Easter eggs, and going to the park.

Sadly Grandma had to go back to America (I tried to convince her to stay forever but apparently living in our tiny 2 bedroom flat and sleeping in Poppy's room on an air mattress isn't very appealing) and Mat had to go back to work. The first few weeks on my own with 2 children are a bit of a blur but we survived!

Sophie is almost 6 weeks old already! How long it has taken me to write this shows how busy life is with a 2 year old and a young baby. Poppy loves Sophie and walks around saying "Sophie's my best friend!" She also constantly wants to "give Sophie a little pat pat" which never fails to wake Sophie up - Poppy isn't the gentlest of patters.

Poppy still goes to nursery 2 days a week. She had her last day at my nursery today as we're moving her to one that's closer while I'm on maternity leave. I'm hoping she settles in well.

It has taken me the whole day to write this and now it's bedtime for the babies.

Here are some photos:

Leaving the hospital 
Our first photo as a family of 4 :)
Poppy making Sophie watch the lion movie (Madagascar)
Sophie loving America 
It's been a rainy spring in London... good thing Poppy has her own umbrella!

30 December 2015

Christmas and Boxing Day

Happy holidays (a few days late!)
We had a lovely few days back in Dorking for Christmas/Boxing Day. Poppy loved playing with her cousins Evie and Finley, and spending some quality time with Nanny, Grandad and her uncles and aunts.
Poppy understood Christmas a bit more this year, which was really cute to watch. She helped decorate the tree, wrap presents (even her own - she was still surprised when she opened them!), and fill the stockings. She loved opening her presents on Christmas morning and opened most of mummy's presents as well ๐Ÿ˜‰
Christmas Eve presents from grandma and grandpa - surprise it was pajamas!

Christmas morning!



The Peppa Pig air bed was a big hit! Thanks Auntie Katie and Uncle Andrew!


That's all for our Christmas photos.

After a few weeks of horrendous sleep for Poppy (and consequently horrendous sleep for Mat and I!), she has finally decided to give us a break. She's going down to sleep without a battle and is only waking up once or twice - and then going back to sleep in ber crib. I know what you're thinking "Allie, she's almost 2. She should be sleeping through the night!".. well she doesn't! And she never really has.. but I read somewhere once that babies/toddlers who wake up frequently in the night are extra intelligent so I'm clutching onto that. Plus when baby number 2 comes none of us will be sleeping anyway!

Speaking of baby number 2, all's well in the womb. We're 30 weeks this weekend. Baby is growing, kicking, and giving me lots of heartburn! I've been craving salt - olives, soy sauce, crisps. Only one month of work left and then we're in the homestretch! I have some holiday to take so I'll take that in Feb and then start maternity leave in March.. and hopefully Baby will be here sooner rather than later!

One more photo of little Pops..

She is so cute :)

Hope everyone has a happy new year!

08 December 2015

A Grandma Caryl Guest Blog...


I’m back with a guest blog about my latest trip to London.  I had mostly uneventful flights from Madison to London.  Sat on the runway for awhile in Minneapolis waiting for a mechanical problem to be fixed (always comforting to hear that there is a mechanical problem right before you fly across the ocean), so ended up getting there a little bit later than planned.  That gave Mat a little more time to frantically clean their flat before my arrival.  I think my kids all think I am going to walk in and do a white-glove inspection before I take up residence.

We then took a harrowing car ride to Allie’s nursery to pick Poppy up.  I am guessing Mat didn’t think it was harrowing, but it is just in my nature to be in full panic mode when riding in a car with my son-in-laws.  (Andrew can attest to that).  Spent a little time with Allie before whisking Poppy away to the grocery store.  Mat should NEVER go grocery shopping without a list and a menu plan!  We had many bags to carry, didn’t have Poppy’s buggy, and couldn’t figure out how to get back to the parking garage!  Also, Poppy was shunning me by this time and would not hang on to my hand.  We wandered around, going up and down escalators, for quite some time before finally navigating our way to the car.  To say I was relieved is a huge understatement.   I am still having flashbacks.  I was pretty sure we would be stuck on the wrong side of the station for eternity with me saying “Mat, let’s just look at a map” and Poppy screaming at me every time I tried to grab her hand.  I felt like a kidnapper (albeit a stupid one who didn’t think to bring her groceries home before setting out to snatch a kid)!  When we relayed our adventure story to Allie, she was very perplexed as to how Mat could get lost in a place he has been to a hundred times.  Feel like he will be hearing that every time they go to Canary Wharf!

Poppy was a little hot and cold with Grandma for those first two weeks (haha, not really.  Just the first few days).  I don’t hold it against her since she also had Daddy home during her awake hours.  On her fun meter, Daddy will win out over Mummy and Grandma every time.  He jumps in puddles and is teaching her how to jump and click her heels – need I say more?!  She doesn’t quite have it down, but Mat is awesome at it.  Hopefully, that will turn up in a video at some point.

So Barcelona happened…4:30 a.m. wake-up to catch a 5:30 a.m. taxi to the train station.  (Poppy made sure we were all up in plenty of time)!  Got on the Gatwick Express to the airport.  Keep in mind, Poppy is not feeling amazing, so guilt all around at dragging her on this trip to Spain.  Had time at the airport for breakfast with the tiniest adult cutlery I have ever seen.  It was really foggy, so our plane was delayed.  I am talking pea-soup foggy.  When we were finally able to board, it was still pea-soup foggy, then we were told we were going to sit there for 2+ hours.  Why did we board when it was obvious that we were not taking off any time soon?  Unclear.  Nothing a sick 20-month old likes better than being cooped up on an airplane.  Thankfully, Allie and Mat are really good at entertaining Poppy.  Not sure the flight attendants were thrilled to have them going up and down the aisles and lounging on the floor at the front of the plane, but I think they sensed it was not a good time to be enforcing the rules.  We finally took off and Poppy handled the flight well.  At least I think she did – she was still choosing Mummy and Daddy over Grandma, so I was able to cat nap (sorry you’re so popular, Allie and Mat)!

We departed the plane in the midst of wind and rain and had to take a shuttle to the actual airport.  A man face planted behind me walking in and managed to injure me with what was apparently a box filled with lead bricks judging by my bruises.  The trip just gets more magical with every minute, right?!!  Poppy did make friends with Francisco the cab driver (she insisted Allie include him in the ‘friend’ song they were singing on our way to the Air B & B.  Allie went through the rest of us in the car twice, but Poppy kept pointing to Francisco).  In spite of the bad start to our trip, Poppy not sleeping pretty much our entire time there, our paper thin walls at our accommodations (this is apparently the city that never sleeps), and me getting lost on the streets of Barcelona, we did enjoy the sunshine and SOME of the food!  We were, however, happy to get back to London on Thursday.



Upon our return, I set about organizing Allie’s life a little bit (trying to make room for baby’s things)! One of my brilliant ideas was to get a plastic drawer storage thing for Poppy’s tiny wardrobe.  You know, Americans, the Rubbermaid or Sterilite things you can get at just about every store in America.  Sounds easy, right? I never thought I would hear the words ‘you could really use a Wal-Mart here’ come out of my mouth.   After visiting about ten stores we finally found a B & Q.  As we drove in the parking lot I thought, ‘Hello, Home Depot, it’s me, Caryl’!  I cannot describe how happy Allie and I were when we walked into this store!  They had our drawer thing, along with many other storage things.  We did have to limit our buying since their car is tiny and we had Mat and Poppy taking up valuable cargo space : )


I did, of course, manage to hang out with Poppy quite a bit (really the whole purpose of my visit).  We made many creations with Play-Doh (she liked my snails and snowmen).  Halfway through my visit her parents bought her Play-Doh with glitter in it.  I was very impressed with whoever makes this stuff since there didn’t seem to be glitter on every surface … except Mat’s face and it was always on his way out the door to go to work!  Did I say anything? Nah.  Just a nice reminder that he has a life outside of work.

One of my goals on this visit was to get a Grandma holiday activity into the agenda.  We decided to make gingerbread cookies, not knowing that molasses would be as elusive as plastic storage. Mat found some at a health food store, so he was briefly my hero.  However, when I went to use it I realized it was probably the blackstrap variety – looked like tar and was really bitter. Had we just googled it, we would have discovered that we could have used treacle as a substitute (plenty of that at the grocery store).   The show must go on, though, so we went ahead and used it.  The cookies tasted pretty gross, but Poppy had a great time rolling the dough (we found her a little rolling pin at the charity shop) and she was a pro at sprinkling her bench flour! We decorated the cookies with the odd assortment of candy I picked up (lips and teeth, anyone? No, they were not left over from Halloween).  While Poppy didn’t actually try to eat the cookies, she definitely was sampling the candy (the lips were her favourite).

  



Other fun things I did with Poppy (and Allie and Mat) – built Duplo towers, went to the park (she loves to swing), watched her scooter along the Thames, played with Baby and Bunny (or Munny, as she says), read her lots of books, let her play with the zipper on my vest (she loved that), did some coloring, went to the library, established a snack drawer for her in their kitchen (she also loved that), went to Bread Street Kitchen for lunch, Borough Market, and the city farm.





A Poppy observation – She is super British!  While I know that sounds like it should be obvious (she was born there and lives there), now that she is talking it is really obvious!  It’s really cute when she says ‘oh dear, Mummy’ or ‘hallo ducks’ or really just about anything!  Maybe the British side of her family thinks she sounds American?  Probably not.  We haven’t taught her to say ‘you guys’ or ‘y’all’ yet. 

After taking up valuable floor space in their living room for two weeks, I had to pack my bags and say my farewells to the Horvath family.  I always dread this moment, but it’s so much worse when there is a grandbaby thrown into the mix!  Can someone please invent teleporting already!

Until next time.

23 November 2015

27 years young

This post is a holding post until Caryl completes her guest blog from her visit (ahem hurry up!)

Kelly Kiley was here this weekend, which was really nice. No matter how long it's been since we've seen each other (and it had been a long time!) we always manage to pick up right where we left off :) 
We showed Kelly some sights and then let her venture out on her own. Poppy's not a very good tourist and the tourist destinations are not buggy friendly (so many stairs) so we skipped the big ones. Today we had birthday brunch before we sent her off to Amsterdam to meet that gorgeous niece of hers. It was a short but sweet visit. I was really rubbish at taking photos so hopefully Kelly took some! This is the only one I have .. 

Poppy went to nursery today so Mat and I could go out for fancy lunch for my birthday. We went to the restaurant in the top of the walkie talkie building in the city  (also known as 20 Fenchurch Street - the building on the left of the photo). 
There is a sky garden and an incredible view of London. Our food was really good and it was a nice relaxing way to ring in my 27th year of life.

And we'll finish this post off with an awkward family photo in front of Big Ben - honestly could Poppy look more uncomfortable? 

Mom, you're up! Guest blog time!

25 October 2015

The moon

I don't have a lot to report in this blog post. Most importantly, Momma Keys will be here on Friday! Whoop whoop!

We took Poppy to Mudchute Farms today, which is a massive city farm near Canary Wharf. She loved it! Especially the goats. Here is her saying "hello goats!"
We changed our clocks last night so it's dark really early at night. Tonight we went out for a walk and Poppy discovered the moon. She also decided that she doesn't like the moon and keeps telling it to "stay there" while holding up her hand. It is adorable. "Stay there moon!" 

We're halfway through the pregnancy and really struggling with names. It's so much harder to name the second baby! Any ideas, throw them our way. Here's a bump picture - second baby bump is so much bigger than first baby bump was at 20 weeks!

Completely random but Mat told me the other day that he used to call speed bumps "sleeping policemen".. How cute and British is that?!

That's all for now. I'm sure Momma Keys will do a guest blog post when she's here :)

06 October 2015

Long weekend

I took my last day of holiday from work yesterday (Monday) which meant I got a 4 day weekend (I don't work on Fridays). It was amazing! 

Poppy and I went to the park with my friend Kristin and her son Benjamin. After about an hour, I had to drag Poppy out of the swing (she would live in the swing if we let her!). We had a little picnic and saw the ducks.  It was a lovely Friday afternoon!

Saturday we went to visit Mat at work. Poppy loves eating at Bread Street and loves seeing her dad! After we left I had an aggressive craving for sushi so Mat had to bring me home some Snow Crab California Rolls - yum! They were glorious.

Mat was off on Sunday and Monday, so we actually had two days off in a row together. On Sunday we went out for a disappointing brunch in Canary Wharf - when your husband works for Gordon Ramsay it's hard to be impressed by other restaurants ๐Ÿ˜ They did have a really nice play room for children though..

 After brunch we went shopping and got Poppy her new favourite toy - a scooter! She is obsessed. It took a while to convince her that she had to wear the helmet in order to ride the scooter but now she loves the helmet as well! It has a seat since she's a bit too young to actually use a scooter.
 

On Monday we took Poppy swimming in the morning - she's starting to kick in the water and move her arms. And she absolutely loves the water! She doesn't even mind going under water.

In the afternoon we thought we'd take Poppy bowling since she's never been. Absolute disaster! She liked choosing the ball, and pushing it down the ramp but that was where the fun ended. As soon as the ball got halfway down the lane she cried - I think she thought the ball was gone forever! So she'd cry for the ball and we'd show her that it was coming back out and she'd go "oh hi ball!".. it was a roller coaster of emotions. And she didn't understand that the pins were supposed to fall down. Needless to say we won't be going bowling again any time soon!
Poppy crying about the ball going away.

That's it for the weekend! It was so nice for Mat and I to have two days off together - it's a rare occurrence and we loved the family time! Now to make it through a few more weeks of work and then Momma Keys will be here! Eeeep!

22 September 2015

A Catch-Up Post!

Wow it has been a long time since I've written a blog post! Where do I start?

I'm sure everyone has heard by now that Mat and I are expecting baby number 2 in March next year. It has been a rocky pregnancy so far, filled with incessant nausea, stomach bugs, annoying colds and exhaustion. I'm 15 weeks now so hoping the second trimester is kinder than the first. For people who like to see ultrasounds, here's our little pea pod at 12 weeks:

Poppy is almost 20 months old now (whattttt?!) and full of beans. She is so funny. Most notably, she's started calling Mat and I by our first names when she wants something or if we aren't paying attention to her. It is so funny I don't even correct her ☺️ She loves Peppa Pig and reading books (I swear I've read Rumble in the Jungle 272927272 times in the last month!). She can make a million animals noises and knows most of her colours. When she counts everything is "two" and she is obsessed with her nursery teacher Fahima (aka Mema). 

We had a run in with a dog (not on a leash๐Ÿ˜ก) in the park a few days ago. He ran up to Poppy barking and tried to take the apple she was eating. She was so scared and now is absolutely petrified of dogs! She wakes up crying and saying "no dogs, no dogs!" at night.. It's really sad. Hopefully she gets over that soon.

Auntie Tooks visited us at the beginning of the month- the weekend was plagued by a horrible stomach bug for me and Poppy but it's always nice to see Tooks (sorry for all the vomiting!). Poppy spent most of the weekend chastising her for being there .. "No no Tooks" seemed to be all she said all weekend! She was just playing hard to get, she secretly loves her Auntie Tooks!

Mat has been working really hard (no surprise there!) and we treasure our 1 days a week of together. 

We have a lot to look forward to in the next few months. We have our 20 week scan (where we most likely will NOT be finding out the gender of the baby - we like surprises!), Grandma Caryl is coming to visit at the end of October (whoop whoop!). Then Kelly Kiley comes in November!

Here's Poppy splashing in the rain today (those shark boots help her run super fast).

We had to get on the bus to avoid the rain- she was not thrilled.

I'm off to bed because it's 8 o'clock and I'm exhausted